Friday, March 5, 2010

How to Be Whole Again

Sometimes, when you say you’ve had your heart broken, you really mean you’ve had your heart ripped straight from your chest and thrown into a big blender. Every heartbreak feels as painful, as cruel, and as crazy as that.


But despite all the struggles and suffering, you have to learn how to get through the day, because life will move on even if you choose not to. You have to realize that you still have your friends and family, and they will help you get out of the black hole you got suck into. The best way to move on is actually pretty simple: spend time to people you love and people who love you. Don’t lock yourself in your room listening to sappy song because that would just make the tears flow like a water theme park. Instead, watch a lot of comedies or funny cartoons, and keep yourself busy in the most productive ways possible. Most importantly, take this chance to focus on yourself. Because maybe during the relationship, it was just all about your partner. Maybe you made everything revolve around him, gave him too much, and didn’t leave enough for yourself. Maybe you didn’t have enough time to love one person who truly matters: YOU.


Keep in mind that whenever you go to heartbreak, no matter how devastated you are, it’s not the end of the world. Even though you’ve hit rock-bottom, you can still dig, come out of the other side of the Earth, and start anew.

Juliebeth D. Afable

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